This is a community for people who are in official engaged relationships. There are many communities geared towards general relationships and wedding planning, but this community exists just for engaged couples to talk about the uniqe perks and challenges of being an individual yet half of an engaged couple.
This community is 18+. However, we recognize that age isn't a true measure of a person, and 18 isn't the age of adulthood in all countries. If anyone who is 16 or 17 is getting married within the next two years and thinks that they qualify for this community wishes to join, they may send a copy of their intro post to one of the mods, and they will be taken on a case-by-case basis.
This community is for those who are currently engaged. If your engagement is not public knowledge in the real world (including families) or you're planning on getting engaged "eventually" or "when we get enough money", this community is not for you. If you are married, this community is also not for you.
Any topic about how life is affected by being engaged is fair game; but, please, don't talk about wedding planning. There are many communities that focus on weddings, and the focus of this community is on the relationship itself. Any wedding related poster (unless it is somehow related to some relationship issue) will be kindly redirected to a community where this is appropriate.
However, you may make a final post to let us know that you have gotten married!!
Be nice. Flames will be extinguished promptly. Repeat offenders will be banned.
No spamming or community ads. If they are wedding or general relationship oriented, contact one of the mods, and she will put them in this info page. When in doubt, check with a mod first.
Age-ism is not tolerated in this community in any form. Anyone who makes any derogatory age related comment to anyone at any time will be banned without warning.
Fill out the questionnaire below and post it within a week of joining. If you post without having first posted an intro post, you will be given one warning and then your membership will be terminated or you may be banned (at the discretion of the mods). If you haven't posted within one week, you will be given a one week warning; and then, if you have not posted, your membership will be terminated or you may be banned (also at the discretion of the mods). We save the intro posts and include you and your fiance(e`) in the wedding date list, so we can all congratulate you when you get married.
Name (first and LJ name): Age: Where are you from? Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Fiance(e`)'s Age: Where is he/she from? How long have you been together? How did you meet? When did you get engaged? How? When are you getting married? Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list? What is your biggest challenge as a couple?
When posting pictures, please remember to place them behind a lj-cut. It keeps everything much more organized and makes it easier for everyone to browse the community when things are done this way. Thanks! This is our Wedding Dates List. These are our Promo Banners