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Thursday, July 21st, 2011
10:24 am - Serge Gree Photography


 I`m a Wedding Photographer based out of New York, available for national and international travel.

My work is a mix of photojournalism and classic style, which allows you to have the best of everything that modern wedding photography has to offer.

Visit my website at: http://sergegree.com



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Wednesday, June 1st, 2011
1:01 pm - Wedding guest list
davidlerkind Smart guest list building features allow you to easily input the guest information and organize the wedding guests in groups.

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Wednesday, January 12th, 2011
10:57 pm - Wedding Wishes

Hi there,

My name is El, I'm 27 and a bride-to-be. I'm also a web developer and in the process of setting up a wedding community website called "Wedding Wishes" at http://www.weddingwishes.co

I'm looking to get the ball rolling and encourage some communication on the forums before I actually launch the site, and as such, I'd love to invite the community to join for free and even receive a couple of freebies I picked up while doing some marketing for work. There's a fantastic ebook worth $40 that you can download for free that claims to save you thousands. Not sure how accurate that is in practice, but I've read it and it is actually really good... and really very free!

Anyway, I'd love to see all of you over at Wedding Wishes to claim your membership and free goodies. Feel free to add my personal journal or message me if you have any questions or need a hand.

I apologise if some of you got caught in a cross-post or if this isn't an appropriate intro. Mods - please delete this message if you feel it lacks value to the community.

Wonderful to meet you all,

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Monday, October 19th, 2009
12:49 pm - Intro

Name (first and LJ name): Sarah/ hiitssarie
Age: 21
Where are you from? Austin, TX
Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Chris (no LJ)
Fiance(e`)'s Age: 23
Where is he/she from? Austin, TX
How long have you been together? 5 years in Jan
How did you meet? Through a mutual friend when I was in high school and he was a freshman in college
When did you get engaged? Feb 28, 2009
How? He recreated our first date by taking me to a local park (where we spent a lot of time when we were first dating), to Olive Garden for dinner, then to a different park. It was very sweet:-)
When are you getting married? Aug 14, 2010.
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list?  Yep!
What is your biggest challenge as a couple? Time. Distance; we live apart right now because we go to different colleges, and will continue to do so until May. We have been long distance for 4 out of our 5 years together, but we see each other most weekends, so that helps. I can't wait to live with him full time!

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Sunday, October 11th, 2009
9:06 pm

Name (first and LJ name): Hilary/ aislincalum
Age: 25
Where are you from? San Jose, CA
Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Adam (no LJ)
Fiance(e`)'s Age: 26
Where is he/she from? Hayward, CA
How long have you been together? Just about 2 1/2 years.
How did you meet? He worked with my best friend when they were in high school.  I didn't meet my best friend until we were 19, but they found each other on MySpace and she invited him over to our apartment.  He says he fell in love immediately, but I was engaged to be married to someone else.  My BFF "forgot" to tell him that.  LOL
When did you get engaged? Labor Day weekend.
How? We took a weekend trip to L.A. and spent one of the evenings in my favorite place on the planet, the Santa Monica Pier.  He was trying to get up the courage all night; considered dinner (my aunt was there and my mother would have been very upset if she was not the witness and my aunt was!), at the end of the pier (too many people), on the beach (too dark).  Finally, we were on our way back home when he pulled me up to the top of a building, overlooking the whole pier, beach, Promenade...  It was beautiful at 10:30pm.  He proposed it the quiet night air, nervous as all hell, with the most gorgeous ring I've ever seen.  When we got back in the car, he told me that I had to call my two best friends and let them know that I said yes.  Apparently they already knew all of this was happening!
When are you getting married? April 8, 2012.
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list?  Sure.  :)
What is your biggest challenge as a couple? Time.  We live apart (for now), my mother is not as independent as she would like to be due to an accident 14 months ago, and his job has a tendency to keep him at work late and come home too tired to drive out to my place.  We make it work though.  He is amazing and helps me with everything at my mother's house, so we spend a lot of weekends "together" but working our butt's off.

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Tuesday, August 18th, 2009
1:54 pm - Introduction

Name (first and LJ name): Tamara Tiggy162004
Age: 23
Where are you from? Sierra Vista, Arizona
Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Andrew
Fiance(e`)'s Age: 23
Where is he/she from? Tucson, Arizona
How long have you been together? 7 months
How did you meet? We went to high school together
When did you get engaged? April 5, 2009
How? He proposed on a hike we had taken to watch the sunset
When are you getting married? April 10, 2010
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list? sure
Whatis your biggest challenge as a couple? We are both working crappy jobs and just suddenly found out we will not be getting help for the wedding

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Friday, October 24th, 2008
11:22 am - Are you engaged and underage?


If you are both between the ages of 18-21 and have already popped the question to your boyfriend or girlfriend, MTV wants to hear from you.

We want to shoot all of the excitement of your engagement and wedding for a new documentary series.

Who says you're too young to get married? You think you're ready. This is going to be the biggest day in your life. Are you psyched? Are you overwhelmed? What about all of the planning? Have you met your future in-laws? Are you anxious about that? Who's coming to the wedding? What are you fighting about along the way? What's bringing you closer together? Are you going to go through with it? Maybe you'll elope!!!

You both must be between the ages of 18 and 21. Best case scenario: you're getting married in 2008. Share the excitement leading up to the greatest day.

Email us at engagedandunderage@mtvstaff.com

Tell us the details about when you are getting married and where and why this is important to you. Also be sure to include your name, address, home phone, cell phone, work phone, email address and a digital photo of yourself if possible...

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Sunday, August 31st, 2008
2:53 pm - Clearing the Air


Ok, ok - I reread the introductory post I put out there.  It does come off as a bit obnoxious.  That wasn't my intent at all, but sometimes the message gets lost when you are too close to the subject.  I apologize to those who politely pointed out that it was a bit too... annoying.  To those who weren't polite, well, fnd something better to do than be rude to total strangers that have nothing to do with you.

Anyways, to find a way to let people see more accurately what we're trying to say, the Girl wrote a post on our journal.


So, we are still taking topic ideas, requests for advice, comments, and personal stories from other couples.  On Monday, we will post in regard to what comes in over the weekend.  If we don't get much response, we'll just pick some stuff to talk about and go from there.  We both hope that those of you who like this site, please let us know how to make it more appealing to you - and those who don't like this site, please go somewhere else and do it politely.  Thanks for reading!

current mood: drained

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Saturday, August 30th, 2008
4:06 pm - I'd Like To ntroduce... Us!


I am the Boy, and sitting next to me is my sweet girl, the Girl.

We have started a journal that will revolve around the silly notion that has been presented to us by so many people - that we are the perfect couple. Now, obviously, there is no perfect couple, and we don't claim to be one. All our friends and relatives, though, seem to look at us and see something they want.

We don't entirely understand it, but we do recognize that our relationship is something extremely rare, and tremendously special. So, in the spirit of open communication and community, we have decided to put our life into the spotlight so that others can see how we really are together.

Our journal is a sounding board for people who want advice, a diary for our admittedly odd and quirky lives as a couple, a soapbox for our beliefs on what it takes to be happy with another person, and lastly a forum to discuss all aspects of living a life in this insane world with someone by your side.

Our main journal is at: http://thatcouple.wordpress.com/

You can comment on either site, and can always ask for advice, give any, suggest post topics, and anything else you'd like to say. A last option for communicating with the Boy and the Girl is to email us at that_couple@yahoo.com

We are so excited to start this, and will be posting quite often and regularly, so take a look and keep checking back for new content. Now, go kiss your sweetie!

(x-posted)  (all future posts will be lj-cutted)

current mood: excited

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Wednesday, August 27th, 2008
9:33 am

Name: (first and LJ name): Elizabeth/german_e12

Age: 19

Where are you from? Cincinnati, Ohio

Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Louie / He doesn't have an LJ account

Fiance(e`)'s Age: 23, 24 on Labor Day

Where is he/she from? Cincinnati, Ohio

How long have you been together? It's odd.  We were together for about 7 months, then my parents broke us up, and about 2 and a half years later I realized that this is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, so why should I let my parents control that, and now we've been together for an additional 6 months. *whew*

How did you meet? I was a volunteer at the humane society, and he worked there.

When did you get engaged? April 19th, 2008

How? We were actually in the middle of a mini-argument over some bs thing I can't remember, and he said, "I'm sorry", then came over to me in the other room, and kissed me, and the ring fell in my mouth.  (no, I didn't swallow it!)

When are you getting married? I dunno.... we're thinking about waiting until I graduate from college, so about 3 years.
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list? well, I don't have one set, so I guess not

What is your biggest challenge as a couple? Opposing personalities

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Tuesday, July 29th, 2008
1:24 pm

Ok. I'm newly engaged to the love of my life. Only problem is, he has a seven year old son with another woman and it scares me! I feel inferior to his baby momma even though he tells me how much he couldn't stand her and how he only stayed with her because of the kid. He tells me how he never knew what love was until me and I know he's sincere. So why do I feel like this? Am I stupid for feeling like until we have a kid together I won't mean as much to him. Please help. Its always on my mind!!! Need advice bad!!!

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Monday, March 17th, 2008
11:01 am - So excited I can't even come up with a word!

FH and I took this community's advice and went to his childhood church together for evening mass on Saturday.  I loved it!  It was so beautiful, the priest was amazing, the sanctuary was this gorgeous all white and had big open windows on the "cross" (the head and arms of the cross, sorry lack of intelligent descriptive word).  It was amazing and perfect for the night time wedding that we want!  If it's a clear night we'll be able to see the stars, and if it's snowing - which would be fabulous - we would be able to see the snowflakes!  

We asked the priest if we could set up a time to speak with him about getting married and he informed us that he actually had time right after mass if we had time.  We did, so we shipped our kiddo out the door with Grandma and Grandpa and went to talk to the priest.  He was so down to earth and easy going.  I instantly clicked with him.  We did the questioning and intentions and he got reacquainted with David and got to know a little bit about my background.  

And then we started talking about dates, we told him we wanted a November wedding and his face kinda cringed and he told us that all of the Friday and Saturdays in November were booked!  I thought this was suppose to be the off season but evidently it's the new June lol.  And then he looked again, and he was like wait, we do have a Friday open because the couple just cancelled!  SWEET!  I mean I hope the couple is okay, but now we have a wedding date!  November 21, 2008.  

We were even able to do our FOCCUS questions and more information about engagement encounter that evening.  He was such a lovely man and so accommodating  Just had to share.  Happy planning to all!   


current mood: ecstatic

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Thursday, March 13th, 2008
2:11 pm - Intro

Name (first and LJ name): Anna  --- dreams2_reality
Age: 23
Where are you from? Louisville, Kentucky
Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): David --- no lj
Fiance(e`)'s Age: 24
Where is he/she from?  Louisville, Kentucky
How long have you been together? 1 1/2 exclusively
How did you meet? poker tournament
When did you get engaged? Dec. 7, 2007
How? He took me to a fabulous restaurant on the river front.  Rented a suite in the hotel over looking my favorite park in the city.  We were sitting in the window enjoying some wine and then he asked.
When are you getting married? Nov 2008 unsure of exact date
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list? sure
What is your biggest challenge as a couple? interfaith relationship and we have a child

current mood: hopeful

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Wednesday, March 12th, 2008
11:04 pm - New :)

Name (first and LJ name): Erica flawlessfallacy
Age: 21
Where are you from? Fontana, CA (it's in Southern California)
Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Manuel.  He doesn't have one
Fiance(e`)'s Age: 23
Where is he/she from? Moreno Valley, CA
How long have you been together? 2 years, 2 months
How did you meet? Lol, funny story.  I found him on MySpace.  He was actually at the same NROTC battalion as me.  He was one of the few people from SoCal attending a college in VA.  I met him in person at our Marine Corps B-day Ball.
When did you get engaged? December 25, 2006
How? He came over on Christmas day to pick me up and head over to his grandparents.  He handed me this heavy present and insisted I open it.  I sat down and opened it.  To my surprise, there was the ring sitting in the ring box  among a bunch of aquarium stones.  I was so speechless and he said "Will you marry me?"  I uttered yes...still in shock :)
When are you getting married? August 29, 2009
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list? Nah
What is your biggest challenge as a couple? The distance.  He's currently in NY going through some naval training.  He's a submariner so deployments are not going to be fun.  So far, we've been apart for 9 months and although some days are harder than others, counting down the days until he's here in San Diego with me permanently is exciting :).

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Thursday, March 6th, 2008
8:45 pm - Intro...

Name (first and LJ name): Michelle, yacaughtme2386
Age: 21
Where are you from?: Louisiana
Fiance's Name (first and LJ name): Justin, pi_is_not_three
Fiance's Age: 22
Where is he from?: Louisiana
How long have you been together?: 2 years
How did you meet?: Through mutual friends
When did you get engaged?: Hm. Feb. 20th.
How?: Heh, he sat me down and told me that he knew that we'd planned to get married after we were done with college, but we weren't in college anymore [we both dropped out this semester for different personal reasons] so would I want to marry him now? Yeah. He's a dork.
When are you getting married?: November 23, 2008
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list?: Sure.
What is your biggest challenge as a couple?: Hm. Mostly quitting school has been taken hard by both our families, even though dropping out was a separate event from the whole engagement thing. Also, my parents don't really like my fiance and think I'm making a huge mistake by marrying him, and refuse to take part in the wedding. So yeah... stress and drama. :D

current mood: bored

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Thursday, February 21st, 2008
8:34 pm - Hello ^_^

Name (first and LJ name): Cassandra aka cosmicdream
Where are you from? from the Buffalo, Ny area but just recently moved to Lancaster, Pa. Our wedding is going to be in Western Ny though which makes all the planning a little bit more difficult.
Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Chris, and he doesn't have a LJ
Fiance(e`)'s Age: 26
Where is he/she from? Same story as me above =)
How long have you been together? been together4 years, engaged for 2 months
How did you meet? online, actually
When did you get engaged? January of 08
How? he proposed at one of our favorite hang out.. the Olive Garden lol
When are you getting married? July 25th 2009
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list? sure
What is your biggest challenge as a couple? having our families get along. the have different religious beliefs (my family is Christian, his mom is wiccan) and it doesn't sit well AT ALL with either.

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7:00 pm

Hello all. This is my first post here. Thought i'd tell you about me. I'll post other randome things later....american idol is on, and i'm cooking dinner.

Name (first and LJ name): Jacklyn aka Cinnamon_06
Where are you from? Texas
Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Emery he doesn't have an LJ
Fiance(e`)'s Age: 50
Where is he/she from? Texas
How long have you been together? a year and half
How did you meet? work together
When did you get engaged? July 07
How? long comical story...nothing went as planned.
When are you getting married? hopefully nov, date yet to be decided.
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list? sure
What is your biggest challenge as a couple? overcoming what everyone thinks about the age difference between us....they won't understand how we connect on so many other levels.

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Sunday, February 17th, 2008
5:31 pm - The Tyra Banks Show
wueppa A nationally syndicated talk show is looking for women who are getting married and are stressing about their wedding, paying for everything, and most importantly FITTING into their DRESS!!!

Are you a bride to be that is STRESSING out about fitting into your wedding dress. Are you going to extremes to lose those extra pounds. If you are getting married and going to extremes measures to diet, then we would like to hear your story. We are looking to hear from brides that are determined to fit into their dress no matter what. So if you or someone you know is taking dieting to an extreme right before the big day, let us know. Please contact me ASAP, we are putting together a show and would like to address this important issue. Please call me anytime so we can discuss more details. If you do reply to this via email please include a contact number and a photo.

Thank you,

J.C. Cueva
Associate Producer

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Friday, January 4th, 2008
11:17 am - Intro

 Name (first and LJ name): Kasey/Jellybean120
Age: 25
Where are you from? Pennsylvania
Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Mike/No LJ
Fiance(e`)'s Age: 30
Where is he/she from? Pennsylvania
How long have you been together? 1 year
How did you meet? New Years last year-- he's my best friend's brother
When did you get engaged? Last Saturday :)
How? Mike style.  He bought the ring, came home and asked me to go into the kitchen to see if "this thing" would work.  He pulled out the ring and asked me if I knew what it was.  He asked, I think I said "I'll think about it" (joking, of course) and that was that.  It wasn't the most romantic thing, but it wasn't exactly a big surprise, either.
When are you getting married? that's yet to be determined.
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list?  Sure!  Once we have one.  :)
What is your biggest challenge as a couple?  He's a type A personality and I'm totally type B.  It's been a challenge, but it's also been a good thing.  I've taught him how to relax a little and he's taught me how to be more assertive.  Also, we have a semi-long distance relationship, so we only see each other on the weekends.

current mood: working

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Wednesday, January 2nd, 2008
12:54 am

Name (first and LJ name): Lauren - KattoKaruto
Age: 17
Where are you from? Ohio
Fiance(e`)'s Name (first and LJ name): Matthew - (Doesn't have an LJ.)
Fiance(e`)'s Age: 19
Where is he/she from? Ohio
How long have you been together? Over two years.
How did you meet? Through some friends.
When did you get engaged? June 15th, 2007.
How? He had just taken me to the chiropractor, and we get back to my house, (he always opens doors..) so he walked to my car door and got down on his knee and asked me to marry him.
When are you getting married? Not sure yet, either after September this year, or next year some time.
Would you like to be included on our wedding dates list? Yes, as soon as we figure out a date!
What is your biggest challenge as a couple? Me still being in school.

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